Tomorrow we will answer questions about relationships and reading the faces of your sweethearts. But First, an important Message:
What do Women Want?
Guys – this is your chance to save your relationship if are thinking of blowing off Valentines Day. If she has to tell you that you didn’t treat her right, it could be very painful and could get very expensive. So you need to own up to it and fix it before you find yourself sleeping on that big couch in the sky. Don’t know if you blew it? Here is some help:
Romance Rules guys ignore at their peril
Valentines day has been around since Jesus. It isn’t going away. It is not a conspiracy between Hallmark cards and DeBeers to suck money out of your wallet.
Every woman, from a boardroom high powered beauty to a barroom babe and every woman in between, wants her man to treat her right on Valentines day. There are a few exceptions, but believe their protestations at your peril.
Valentines day is the Ground Hog Day of every relationship. If the romance genie doesn’t show up on Valentines Day, you are in for a long, cold winter. Possibly for the rest of your life.
Women expect romance on Valentines Day. This may vary with countries and with generations, but they expect it.
Face it, Darlin’, if you are dating her and sleeping with her, she is not your buddy, your platonic friend or one of the guys. There are only two women you can safely ignore on Valentine’s day- your mother and your hooker (unless she carries a piece.) In the US, women want…..Download the full Article:.What do Women Want
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Beth, you are wonderful! Right on the money and well said. You gals do think about us all the time. The least we can do is the card, roses, dinner and gift! Cheap date!
My Honey is in Florida today and I’m in Phreezing Philly. I sent her all the stuff except dinner. (That will be on her return). Pays dividends all year. I love her, so why not?
Rich
Thanks Rich! Happy Valentine’s Day! She’s lucky to have you! And you’re right, you love her, so why not? I always wonder what the deal is with guys that protest having a special day. They say they don’t need a special day to tell her they love her, then we find out they don’t say it all that often otherwise either! Oh Well! Take good care of each other!
Beth
This is the kind of direct communication that men, need want and understand. Too often women expect us to be mind readers and read their mind because we love them. Men are lousy mind readers, when will women understand that. If all women would communicate as directly as you have over Valentines Day we would have a whole less hurt feelings.
Kudos to you. I tried to copy and paste your column but it came up in my word file as a verticle column. I would like to reproduce it for my upcoming book if you are willing. If you are can you please send it to me in a file that will reproduce?
Thanks
John Wilder
Hi John – thank you so much for being on our blog on our first day! And thanks for the kudos on the Valentine’s Day piece. Yes – I have learned from loving men that you gentlemen do need a few hints once in awhile. I try to be direct with the men in my life so we don’t have to play the guessing games and then the recrimination games. All of that not only takes too much energy, it diminishes the relationship. I’m all for keeping things open and happy.
While I’m flattered that you want to include it in your book, I would like to have it published first in my book which will be coming out soon. Feel free to put a link to the page in your book if you’d like. Thanks for understanding.
BTW – I’m also an ENTJ, and I’m a certified MBTI administrator. My dad was a beta tester for it before it was made public. So of course he tried it out on all his kids. And I was hooked. What a relief to discover that I was OK as a strong female! I remember reading my profile and feeling a huge sigh of relief. We are all given our skills and talents, and it’s up to each of us to live into that potential!
Blessings and all the best on your book and your marriage seminar business!
Beth